Chatting with your match

How you talk to your match depends on the kind of match.

Date matches

Once you've both said yes to a date, we'll put you in a group text together so you can sort out the details and find each other on the day.

Friend matches

Tap Message on your match to say hi.

  • At most schools, this opens a chat with your match in the app. You'll find all your chats under Messages. On your phone, that's the chat bubble icon at the bottom of the screen. On a computer, it's the chat bubble icon at the top of the page.
  • At some schools, tapping Message asks if you're down to meet. If you're both down, we'll put you in a group chat together.

Keep in mind that friend chats close if you don't both send a message within 48 hours. See Why my match has a timer.

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