Responding to your match
When your match comes out, we'll notify you, and they'll show up on your Home page. What you do next depends on the kind of match.
Date matches
- Open your match from your Home page and get to know them a little.
- If you'd like to meet, send them an invitation with an idea for your date.
- Do it before the timer on your match runs out. See Why my match has a timer.
If they invite you first, we'll let you know and show you how to reply.
Not feeling it? Tap Not interested? and let us know why to help us find you someone better next time. Don't worry, your match won't see what you say.
Friend matches
Tap Message on your match to say hi. At most schools, this opens a chat with them in the app.
At some schools, tapping Message asks if you're down to meet them. If they're down too, we'll put you both in a group chat.
Tip: Don't overthink the first message! A simple hello and a suggestion to grab coffee is often enough.